How did you get sober?

I’m often asked how I got sober, and the answer is simple. I made it a permanent change. When I’d tried to stop drinking in the past, I’d say, “I’m trying to cut down.” I didn’t believe in myself. Then when my language and identity changed to, “I don’t drink anymore,”...

What’s your elevator pitch?

How do you feel about answering the inevitable question, “what do you do?” at a networking event or party, or on a first date? Often people will introduce themselves with a long job title that means very little to anyone outside of their organisation. The response to...

A problem shared is a problem halved

Do you find it hard to talk about your problems, even though you know you’d benefit from doing so? In counselling, your counsellor needs to know your story. They need to understand what’s happened in the past and what’s going on for you right now, so they can help you...