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FOMO

I used to get the worst FOMO. I went to EVERYTHING. If there was nothing going on, I’d create something. It was exhausting! But I never really liked parties, and that’s why I drank so much at them. If you need to drink to enjoy something, do you really enjoy that...

Lapse or Relapse?

When you’re not drinking… but then you drink. What do you do next? You have a choice. Is this a lapse, a chance to reflect on what’s working for you and what’s not? Or are you diving in, full relapse, you’ve drank once so might as well give up on this whole sober...

Are you dependent?

I knew I wanted to take a month off drinking. But not this month. There was that birthday, hen night, wedding, party… There was always SOMETHING. Something that I couldn’t possibly go to without drinking. I wasn’t dependent though. I didn’t drink every day, or at...
Dry July?

You’ve probably taken steps to try to control your drinking in the past: a week off here, a Dry January there, no mid-week drinking, maximum 3 drinks on a night out, no shots… I know I did plenty of those challenges over the years. And challenges they were. I felt...

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Ignorance is bliss

I spent 2 decades knowing what life felt like as a drinker, with no knowledge of what life felt like sober (apart from pregnancy breaks, which do not count!). Realising that there was never a convenient month to take a month off drinking showed me that I was reliant...

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Boost your business income without losing your balance

This 1 simple change led to Jo increasing her business income in just 6 weeks, without losing her balance. Jo was drinking red wine in the evenings to unwind, which was leaving her feeling tired all the time. She wanted to take her business to the next level, and she...

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Celebrate good times!

“How will you celebrate?” Getting you into the mindset of the future version of you who hasn’t just achieved your goal but is ready to celebrate it can be a great motivator and help you to believe in yourself. If you’re still learning ways to celebrate that don’t...

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How many times

How many times have you woken up with a raging hangover and declared you’re NEVER DRINKING AGAIN only to find yourself with a refreshing hair of the dog pint in a sunny beer garden by lunchtime that very same day? How many times have you woken up wishing you’d had a...

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Time is your most valuable asset

I’ve got so much more time since I stopped drinking. If I go for a night out, I come home earlier, so I wake up earlier and feel bright and energised - even on weekend mornings. Weekend days used to regularly be lost to hangovers. Now I use them to connect with my...

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My friends will think I’m boring

I speak to lots of people who want to stop drinking, but feel like it's impossible because it's so central to how they socialise, and they don't want to lose their friends. This was my main blocker for a long time too. I didn't feel like I would know how to spend time...

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Decision Fatigue

You know you want to drink less. You want to feel good in the mornings, have more energy and motivation for the things you want to do, and to let go of shame and regret. But by the evening, you’ve already made so many decisions throughout the day, that your willpower...

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Lost Weekend

I used to lose so many weekends to hangovers. I had a great time partying, but I was losing precious time with my kids and not achieving the things I wanted to. Now that I don't drink, I have so much more time, money, energy and motivation to do the things I want to...

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